Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Nervous About Interacting With Strangers?

  Many women have a shyness or reluctant attitude when it comes to introducing theirselves at an networking event or party.  It is important to come to the event prepared mentally.  You may wonder what you have in common with the host, you may fear that you don't have a personality outgoing enough, or you may wonder how you'll muster up to have an intelligent conversation with the other event goers.  What ever your fear may be, leave it at the door.  We often fail to realize that most people have insecurities when it come to interacting with strangers.  Check your attitude and remember this when you want to take the lead.
  • People enjoy talking about themselves. Ask them questions to get them started.
  • People feel flattered when you show an interest in them and their work/organization. And they will reciprocate your demonstrations of sincere interest.
  • You have more to offer others than you might think; just believe it.

Sunday, May 1, 2011

Little Gifts Go a Long Way

Want to be memorable after meeting with a client or prospect recruit?  Leave a small gift! Yes, a gift nothing extravagant, it doesn't even have to cost more than a dollar.  I once had a friend bring me literature about her new business to my office, some people dread these types of meetings because it can be awkward going into someone else's space.  But she lightened up the atmosphere by bringing me a tiny adorable chinese-style takeout box full of trail mix, she even brought extras for the other ladies in my office.  I thought this gesture was thoughtful.  When I sat down and thought about this I realized all the vendors I had been working with usually brought a small token gift.  Whether it was a pen, highlighter, mini calendar, post it pad, candy, or even a nail file (all had their company's logo screen printed on), I had a reminder of their company somewhere in or on my desk.  A little goes a long way.

Sometimes when we want to expand our networks we must truly not expect our friends, family, clients, and prospects to give us what we want first.  We must be generous and thoughtful towards others and you soon will reap your rewards.